The pre-event nerves, the preparation and afterwards, the sheer relief that it's over and it worked are like your first kiss - although the less said about that the better. After all, my parents read this blog.
Back to this summer, and to the cake. The cake was for lovely friends who were planning a thoughtful, home-made wedding for 150 guests. They were, thankfully, very relaxed and hadn't even planned to have a cake at all. The ceremony took place in a tiny church with guests squeezed into every nook and cranny. The path from the church was lined with white bunting, which led to a huge marquee in the bride's parents' garden.
Most unusually, there is no recipe in this post. Instead, I wanted to share the things I learnt from making this cake. It was such a special experience for me, but it would have been easier if I'd known some of the following.
I cannot wait to do it all again and so, if you are planning a wedding or know someone who is, please do get in touch. I would love to make a cake for you.
MAKING A WEDDING CAKE: TOP TEN TIPS
Do not be tempted to wing it with a new recipe. You need to be confident that your recipes work, so practise any unknown elements ahead of the big day. You can do this on a much smaller scale to save on ingredient costs.
2. Invest in good quality tins
If this is your first wedding cake, you will likely need to invest in some new tins. While it might feel like a big outlay, I really recommend spending a little more and investing in good quality tins, such as these ones by Silverwood. It makes such a difference to the bake, and once you've invested, they'll keep on giving.
3. Do the maths
You will need to work out how much cake you need, then scale up/down your recipes to make sure you have the right amount of mixture to fill your tins. In a moment of organisational vigour, I made a six-page spreadsheet with columns for each tier and each recipe. While undoubtedly excessive, it did make the baking day a lot easier.
4. Reserve a delivery slot and order ahead
Wedding cakes tend to be large and, consequently, you will need much larger quantities of ingredients than you usually do for baking. I got through over 5kg of butter (22 blocks, for anyone who is interested) and 70 eggs. Save yourself the stress and ordeal of carrying this back from the supermarket and order online. If you will need to source any specialist ingredients separately, call ahead. I spent a rather warm and stressful Tuesday evening trawling north London for early season gooseberries, and wouldn't recommend it.
5. Empty your fridge
Before for begin, make space in your fridge. You'll likely need to chill numerous filled cakes, and the last thing you need is stray jars of mustard getting in the way.
6. Use two stand-mixers (if possible)
I made the entire cake using my Mum's Kenwood, which is older than I am and has certainly seen better days. I would not recommend it. If possible, try to borrow a second stand mixer of buy a second-hand one online. Two mixers would have halved the time I spent preparing cake batter and icing.
7. Label everything
As you are making your different fillings and icings, label them. They may well look similar, and this is an easy way to ensure you are adding the right fillings to the right cakes.
Possibly the worst thing that could happen would be for your cake to collapse or fall over, so take the time to plan how you will be adding internal support to keep everything in place. I used Wilton's plastic dowel rods and thin poly coated cake boards for each tier, which worked perfectly. You can easily learn how to use these via YouTube tutorials such as this one.
9. Plan your journey
One of the scariest parts of the experience can be transporting the finished cakes to the venue. My poor father was under strict instruction to be careful and drove the entire journey at around 15 mph. Don't be tempted to drive an assembled tiered cake. It is a recipe for disaster. Instead, I recommend icing each tier on a thin poly coated cake board, and packing them in special wedding cake boxes like these, to assemble at the venue.
10. What to take with you
Assembling the cake should be a simple affair if you have packed the cakes correctly and prepared your structure. Take an angled palette knife and a little spare icing in a piping bag for small touch-ups on site. Good luck!
These beautiful photographs are by Jess Soper. You can view many more of her gorgeous shots on her website: http://jesssoperphotography.com.